The Attraction Triggers-His secret obsession

 

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Learn The Predictable Patterns that Make Men Fall In Love 

She was one of my favorite clients, and her words kept echoing through my mind...  

"He doesn't see the point, James. That's what he said to me. So I don't see the point either. If I can't win his heart with your help, I must not be cut out for love."  

And that was it.  

She ended our Skype session. And because she lived on the other side of the world, I couldn't even tell her it was me who had failed.  

I had taken too big of a risk. Something my gut warned me against before I even gave her the advice.  

But I ignored my gut. I went for the "big win." Because I wanted to satisfy my own ego. I wanted her to be amazed at how fast I could turn the tide of her relationship.  

I was young, and naive. And I was practicing the complicated art of relationship coaching.  

I felt like giving up. So I went to my mentor for advice.  

I had come to trust her words of wisdom whenever things seemed to fall apart.  

This was one of those days. And I needed to see her.  

I sat across from her with my face in my hands, trying not to feel the sadness and bitter frustration.  

I was lost in my thoughts. Lost in my self-pity. But she looked past the pathetic man sitting across from her. And she called out to the man she had agreed to mentor.  

"James," she said, "though you might want to believe otherwise, you are destined to fail as a relationship coach. It's just part of the learning process. You will make mistakes.  

"And sometimes it's going to hurt. But let me remind you of something you told me long ago.  

"You told me you are on a mission to find the secrets of relationship 

The Attraction Triggers 

With the right triggers, both men and women are designed to fall in love.  We are literally hardwired to fall in love. We are not meant to be alone.  

Did you know it's illegal to own just one guinea pig in Switzerland? I'm not making this up.  

In 2008, they passed several new laws about pet ownership. The one about guinea pigs recognizes the fact that they are genetically hardwired to thrive with companionship. While loneliness takes a serious toll on their health.  

Of course, psychologists have been telling us the same thing about humans for years. Our physical and emotional health is largely dependent on companionship.  

In fact, if you were stranded on a deserted island with a man, everything that's feminine about you would call to him. Without competing distractions, the two of you would be destined to become a couple.  

But here's the question I became fascinated with:  

How can you amplify the natural triggers that cause romantic attraction?  As I watched for clues, I began to see universal patterns. Relationship 

patterns that seemed to show up over and over again just before something beautiful emerged in a relationship.  

Then I began to discover ways to trigger those patterns.  

These triggers could cause a couple to leap forward to deeper levels of intimacy and commitment. Sparking a new level of intimacy that could only be called "true love." A selfless way of loving that was absolutely beautiful.  

You can probably imagine my excitement. Studying patterns in relationships became my new obsession.  

That was long ago. But I never stopped searching. And I've discovered a few relationship patterns you might like to know about.  

The Strangest Thing Men Desire 

It's okay if you want an amazing relationship with a man. It's okay if you refuse to settle for a lukewarm relationship.  

But if you're going to go all out, and really build a beautiful relationship, you need to share that dream with the man you invite into your life.  

And to do a good job of inviting him, you have to understand what's enticing about a relationship from a man's perspective.  

In fact, you'll want to interact with him in a way that feels almost like a proposal. And here's what you're proposing:  

"Let's reject cynicism. Embrace what's beautiful. And create something magnificent." 

But what holds those qualities for a man? What seems "magnificent" to a man?  

He doesn't see a relationship the same way you do. So it's important to know how men see relationships differently.  

That way you can frame your invitation in a way that gets results. You can frame your invitation in a way that connects with his natural drive to create something beautiful with you.  

You'll whet his appetite. You'll trigger his desire to go after a deeper romantic connection with you.  

Sounds good, right?  

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